Unfortunately, we've had enough times of need in the past two years to show us who our true friends are. This one's for you.
You've said something, you've reached out. Maybe it was awkward and difficult, but the content of the message is not what matters, it's that you've offered a shoulder to cry on when it was probably easier to say nothing at all. You've sent your hugs, your words of comfort and sometimes a bit of advice. You've told us you've been through it and come out the other side, still mostly whole. You've said you have no idea what we're going through but you love us and will help us through anything and everything we need. You've said we're positive and strong and that helps us believe it about ourselves. You've assured us we're going to make it.
It's not what you've said or done, it's that you've said or done something.
Maybe you're an old friend, maybe you're a new friend, maybe you're a family member, or maybe you're someone we haven't even met yet in person, but all of you know who you are. Please know that your kindness and friendship is appreciated. Having hands to hold on this journey means more than anything. Give yourselves a pat on the back for being good friends.
xo
Tracy, I read your blog and delight at the stories of your beloved family. I enjoy the fact that you are so honest and give voice to your frustrations, your joys and your sadness. I am one of your blog lurkers and found your blog through Steph K's blog. It seemed a bit "creepy" to add my support when you don't even know me and then I thought about it again...every set of arms around you and your family; be they real or metaphorical can only be a good thing. So my arms are around you even though we may never meet. You and your husband are doing such a great job and love and support can only help.
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Thank you for being such a grateful person. It's insipiring.
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Lisa